In this bonus Q&A Aisling answered your direct questions in our exclusive member zone, revealing insights that challenge common assumptions about professional riding and competition success. Here are the standout moments:
The Professional Path Revealed: When Sarah asked about her 12-year-old daughter's show jumping dreams, Aisling dismantled the "you need millions" myth: "If you have a passion and you're hardworking and you're really trying, you'll be lucky along the way, even if you don't have the funding behind you." She shared how she actively supports young riders by providing talented horses to passionate newcomers, explaining that "people will spot that a mile away when they see a young up and coming rider who's so passionate about it."
Not yet part of our Inquisitive Herd? Join our membership community for exclusive Q&A content, ad-free episodes, and monthly discussions with Anna Louise and her guests.
Competition Psychology Masterclass: Zachary's question about maintaining focus under pressure unlocked Aisling's systematic mental approach. Her revelation that she gets "very annoyed" at herself for noticing spectators during competition led to her practical checklist: checking the clock after the bell, ensuring proper spacing before fences, and maintaining canter rhythm. "I tell myself they're a flight animal. They are looking for a leader to bring them around this course. And I'm that leader."
The 80% Rule: Perhaps the most striking insight came when Aisling revealed that "mindset is hugely important. I'm probably 80% responsible for what happens to us in the ring as competitors." She explained how successful riders win on multiple different horses because "it's the mindset of the rider. They're focused. They believe they can win."
Irish Horse Magic Decoded: Emma's question about favourite breeds sparked a fascinating discussion about why Irish horses are so sought after. Aisling's answer goes beyond breeding: "In Ireland, we don't rush them as much as maybe continental Europe. I think they probably just have time to be a horse first." The relaxed Irish approach to training, combined with "natural horse people" who don't get stressed around horses, creates animals that "just love what they do, they're probably happy horses."
Looking Through Their Ears Again: Aisling Byrne's Remarkable Journey Back to the Saddle
In February 2018, passionate show jumper and entrepreneur Aisling Byrne was walking a horse back from an arena in Portugal when a passing tractor startled the animal. In an instant, the horse reared up and flipped over, landing squarely on top of her. The freak accident crushed her midsection, breaking both hips, shattering her pelvis, damaging her spine, and causing severe internal injuries.
2025 Competition Preview: Our members got exclusive access to Aisling's upcoming schedule, including the touching story of how the Fagan family at Mullingar International Show entered her without her knowledge when she was only jumping 110cm, forcing her to "hurry up" to meet their 130cm minimum. She'll also return to Bolesworth International Show and aims to continue her winning streak at London Global Champions Tour in August.
Member Discussion Starter: Aisling's "hurlers on the ditch" concept (Irish term for sideline critics who aren't actually playing the game) sparked fascinating conversations in our member forum about handling criticism and staying focused on personal goals.
Resource Spotlight: Aisling recommended "The Winning Mind" by Darren Donnelly, a golf-focused book she finds "very transferable to show jumping" for its approach to positive mindset and self-focus.
Q&A Opportunity: Submit your questions about competition psychology, horse selection, or professional riding pathways for our upcoming monthly member session. Aisling's insights have generated significant discussion about the hidden support networks in equestrian sport.
Listen to this episode with a 7-day free trial
Subscribe to Curious Equestrian to listen to this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.